I can’t tell you how many times I heard my lesbian friends say about Rosie and Kelli: “They should have stayed together! We don’t need to give straight people a reason to think gay people shouldn’t be allowed to get married — especially not right now!” (Not that the super-high opposite-sex divorce rate has caused straight people to think of revoking their own marriage civil liberty, of course.) - Heather Hogan

Beyond Visibility: Celesbian break-ups aren’t so hard to handle anymore