“I was like ‘I’m not monogamous! I want to have a lot of fun,’” Kiyomi said. “To be honest with you, Trish, when I first met you, I was in a full-on wifed up relationship and I was on tour all the time. and it was really hard and most of my life i’ve actually been in monogamous relationships. And that was the first time in my life that I was like ‘I’m going to be single and I’m not going to be in a monogamous relationship with anyone. I need to learn myself and I need to learn other people and that’s what I’m going to do.’ The fact that it’s looked at like a douchebag negative thing kind of sucks, but I needed to do that at that point in my life. I knew where I was at and i knew where I stood and, because of that, I told Ali she might not want to participate in the show. It was ultimately her choice and she wanted to do it — and this is the result of it.”